I had the same problem in an own application, and with Kastri FCMRebooted demo. I just removed FireDAC.Phys.SQLiteWrapper.Stat, and then FireDAC uses dynamic linking, and probably uses the native sqlite3 dylib. The database still works.
ChatGPT suggested using TFDPhysSQLiteDriverLink.Create(nil).VendorLib := ''; to use the native library, but that didn't help with statical linking.
Another option would to edit the linking of the static library in the unit, to use the iOS native lib.
EDIT: on Android, you have to use the SQLiteWrapper.Stat unit, or deploy the dynamic lib..